no time for a welcome post :D the subject is should we really talk behind peoples backs?

well if you want to be rational about it you would have to say at first glance that you should badmouth anyone you have info on, thus you would be able to limit the  power of your superiors at work or in any organization you are in, also youd be able to lift your own social position

same goes for friends and so on if you talk behind peoples bakcs there is 3 things you get in reward

thats fashionable

thats fashionable almost looks like a burka to me 😀

first you get the attention of all the nosy people

second you get to decrease the social position of others in a group you are in

now lets come to the point why i believe its not worth teh price you pay

first of all you become a person who isnt to be trusted with any information that isnt meant for the public ear

2nd you are not changing the behaviors that upset you by telling every person about it, besides the oneperson who actually is responsible for it

3rd its mostly a part of the first point: once somoen hears  about you badmouthing them you are considered scum by them

CONCLUSION while in the short run you only gain by gossipping, in the long run you WILL lose and one of the things you might lose first is a friend…

well if you want to gossip go for it

if you need the social rewards that bad 😛

but REMEMBER when you gossip the subject of the story is judged without chance of defence ….

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One Response to no time for a welcome post :D the subject is should we really talk behind peoples backs?

  1. thx for all these useful info ,will be happy to read more about this soon ! wty1d8

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